Wednesday, January 30, 2008
First steps and a family trip
My little baby took his first steps on Monday. It was during family home evening and everyone got so excited and the kids were clapping for him, that he kept trying over and over. It was so cute! Then Tuesday he would go into the living room and stand up by the couch and start walking to the loveseat. He sat down in the middle of the room and looked around like "Where is my audience?" And then when he didn't see anyone, he started clapping for himself. He'd crawl back to the couch and do it again and again.
Then that night S and I were talking about how much fun it would be sometime to just "waste" part of our tax return instead of putting it in an IRA and being "responsible." We started talking about family vacations, (last summer we spent 10 days going to Yellowstone-- and sleeping in a tent). I said I wanted to take the kids to Disneyland sometime. S has never been to Disneyland, but told me to look into how much it would cost and see if we could do it for the amount of the extra refund they are talking about, which for us would be around $2400. We sent in our regular taxes a couple weeks ago and we'll be getting back about $5000. Yeah kids!!!! Anyway, that was all it took!
I started researching and realized that once J turns 3 the end of March, she counts as a person for everything from admissions, to limit of people in the hotel room, bumping us up to a suite instead of a regular room. About another $500. So. . . .. we're going now while she's free, but will still enjoy it a ton, and A is old enough he isn't nursing constantly and I'm not pregnant, so I can go on everything. Basically, we realized the timing is perfect and all the stars probably wouldn't line up again for several years!!!! So we're robbing the savings account until the tax return gets here, and then we're going to "waste" part of it making memories that we can enjoy when we get old.
I got some awesome deals, so if anyone wants to go to California. . . .
We are leaving Feb 9, early and driving to Fresno through Sacramento. (It's the same distance for us to go to San Diego via Fresno as via Salt Lake and S served his mission is Fresno. Then we will drive down to San Diego. and spend Mon at Sea World, Tues the zoo, Wed Sea World (using the coupon code BOEING you can get 25% off tickets and a free 2nd day). Thurs, maybe a sea lion cruise or whale watching cruise and time at the beach then Friday the Wild Animal Park then drive to LA. We got a suite at the Days Inn Seaworld/Airport through hotels.com for $56 a night. Also hotels.com has a rebate up to $100, so for our 5 days, I'll get back $30. For the Zoo and wild animal park, you can buy a membership for $129 (right now there is a $10 off promo) and it gives you a annual pass for two adults and 2 tickets to each park, which we'll use for the boys, J and A are free to everything.
Then in Anaheim, we are doing the 5 day park hopper for the price of at 3 day. The best price I've found it is http://reservations.welcometosocal.com/893_attraction-tickets_a18.html or arestravel.com $164 for adults, $134 kids for the 5 days. This way we can take our time and spread it out. We're planning to do Disneyland on Sat, then take Sunday off, and do California Adventure Monday when I expect it to be more crowded, then hit rides again Tues and Wed and Thurs. when it shouldn't be crowded.
Our hotel here is a Super 8 two blocks from the park, that I got through their website for $49 a night. Then we will drive to Vegas where we are staying at Arizona's Charlie's Boulder for $26, (hotels.com) before driving to Ogden and spending one night at my in-laws before driving home.
For food, the hotels all have breakfasts, and we will bring instant oatmeal. We'll carry snacks and apples and lunch stuff that I'll buy here before we go, then for dinners most nights in San Diego, we'll eat "traveling" meals since the suite has a microwave and fridge and most things there close at 5, so we'll be back earlier and have time to go swimming.
Traveling meals are things I can make with just boiling water or a microwave. Two of the kids favs are instant rice and black beans rolled in a tortilla with a little taco seasoning sprinkled on and Zippy Chicken Chowder which is one can each: corn, pork and beans, diced tomatoes with chilies, condensed cream of chicken soup, and condensed chicken noodle soup. Add water if needed, usually I just rinse the cans a little, microwave until hot and serve with chips and cheese if available. Sometimes I'll add a can of chicken chunks too. Easy Mac is another one they like. Add applesauce and a peanut butter sandwich and they are happy. Also, we like to take the shelf stable milk. They love the flavored "milkshake" ones and I can get them for less than 50 cents each and they don't have to stay cold.
Then for Anaheim I got gift certificates through www.restaurants.com that we'll use for dinner. You can get a $25 restaurant coupon for $10, but with the code EASY, I was able to get them for $4 each. Most restaurants require you to spend $35 to use the gift certificate, but it means we'll be able to eat for $14 plus tax and tip for the whole family. (I only picked inexpensive restaurants where most entrees were under $10.) I wish they had restaurants that took these in Boise.
All together with attractions, hotels, gas, souvenirs, and the food we will have to buy, we're planning on about $2600 for 15 days for all 6 of us, less than $30 per person per day!
I'm super excited. Only 9 more days until we leave!!!
Friday, January 25, 2008
My wonderful children
Why I homeschool
I get asked quite often why I homeschool, and somedays I need the reminder too, So I put together this list of a few of my favorite things about homeschooling, in no particular order.
My kids can make mudpies and forts, get dirty, and go exploring.
I get to hear about the exciting bug they found when it's fresh and exciting.
I get to see the pride and sense of accomplishment when something "clicks" whether that is reading or division. The firsts are less frequent as they grow, but just as magical and special.
We can listen to primary songs while we work.
The gospel can be an integral part of our day and we can have devotionals each morning in addition to scripture study at night. (I know I could do devotionals if my kids were in public school, but I also know I wouldn't get them up an extra 30 minutes early for it.)
My preschooler has someone to play with during the day, and they are best friends with each other.
I can encourage friendships with kids and families who have the same values I do.
My kids can play with and have fun with kids of any age, not just those there same age.
My kids are learning life skills and academics at the same time.
We can enjoy the beautiful fall and spring weather, we take "too nice to work inside" days instead of snow days.
We can start late if I've been up with the baby all night.
We can go on field trips, build projects, and learn by doing instead of with worksheets-- like raising frogs and butterflies, collecting leaves, sorting and graphing M &M's (and then eating them together.)
I see what behavior I'm modeling.
It helps me be a better parent because I have to help them become the type of people I want to be around.
We can read an extra chapter or two or three at bedtime and just start a little later in the morning.
We can count a trip to Yellowstone as school and go when everyone else is in school and it's less crowded.
I can learn new things along with the kids and fill in the gaps from my education.
My kids don't have to hide the book under their desk to read. (I did that for years).
They can work ahead and don't have to spend hours reviewing things they already know.And we don't have to move on before they master something.
I can enjoy my children's childhood and let them be kids and have time to play and grow. School takes less time when you don't have to wait for everyone else to finish. And a lot of work can be disguised as a game or play.
Being smart is not a bad thing.
They can wear a shirt they painted with pride and not worry about what other kids think.
I can decide when we need a day off-- to clean or play or just be together.
I can enjoy those precious morning snuggle times without worrying about missing the bus. We can have the best conversations curled up on the couch or in my bed before the day gets started.